Some sounds we say are “music to my ears.” It could be the sound of a child’s
unrestrained laughter, the sound of a distant train, the words “you were right!” The other day during a phone call from my
oldest grandson, Nikolas, I heard words that were music to my ears as an
Italian grandmother. Nik called to tell
me he like to come for a short visit to see me but there was something
else. “Mima, could you teach me how to
cook?” he asked. Time stopped….I heard a
choir of angels…my heart lifted…could I teach him to cook? There is little else that I can think of that
I would enjoy more teaching him (unless it was how to knit) than cooking!
I never had daughters to pass my recipes on to, to help me
peel the potatoes, to learn how to knead the pasta dough as I did with my
mother. Yet, all of my sons are very
good cooks. It seems that the Italian
cooking gene in Nikolas was waking up and he was wanting to learn my secrets of the
kitchen. Oh, happy day!
We spent the early part of the day just talking about
cooking and he had a slew of questions.
"What does it mean to sauté something?
How do you know when to take the scrambled egg off the flame? What does low flame mean, how can you
recognize it. " He had a notebook and he
took copious notes. One question led to
another and I even surprised myself with my answers. I didn’t realize I knew as much about the art
of cooking as I do!
We planned our dinner.
For our first foray into the kitchen we were going to prepare chicken
breasts three different ways and potatoes two ways. We started with basics of how to prepare
cutlets, how to bread and season, how to brown, to sauté aromatics, to caramelize
onions and to deglaze a pan.
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| Making the Marsala Sauce |
In the end we
enjoyed Chicken Parmagiano, Chicken Piccata and Chicken Marsala with Buttered
Potatoes and Oven Roasted Potatoes.
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| Carrying two of the entrees to the table. |
As we ate, we talked about recipes we can try on future
days. I looked at this young man and I
remembered the little boy I used to rock to sleep.
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| Nikolas 2 years old |
I felt such a pride in
the man he has become. He has grown into his own person. He is intelligent, considerate, focused, loyal, and funny! He is man
enough to wear an apron and wield a pair of tongs. I felt a little envy of the young women in
his life who will benefit from his new culinary talents! And I felt a deep gratitude for his presence
in my life, his connection to me and the memories he continues to give me.
Nikolas, I love you! Thank you for the fantastic day and the fantastic memory!
Mario Batalli…watch out!





This was terrific. Warmed my heart to say the least.
ReplyDeleteWhat a feast the two of you prepared! I was hungry just reading it....hope you all enjoyed it together.
ReplyDeleteEvery time I read one of your posts, Patricia, a tear comes to my eye! So sweet! He's a lucky guy to have a good-cookin' grandma!!
ReplyDeleteWonderful post! I'm teaching granddaughters to sew and can this season...I'm loving every minute!
ReplyDeleteWell done, Nikolas and well done, grandma!
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